A year later, and here we are, finishing the school year off and continuing on with our lives. Finals are finishing up, and we are tying all of the loose ends of our assignments up and getting them all turned it. Some of us will be back next year, and some of us won’t be. We all have memories we will never forget, people we will never let go of, experiences we will never get the chance to be a part of again, and it all plays into our life we have encountered here at MNU.
As the hallways clear out, as the people pack their things, and as all of my friends drive away, it’s kind of sad. I think of the times I spent with people studying, messing around in the dorm late at night, going on midnight Taco Bell runs, and just living a college life, and it is pretty upsetting. Summer is here and all of that is gone. A new path is unfolding and I’m still caught up on the last one. I’m still wishing I didn’t have to leave even though I am excited that I am DONE with homework! I will have no more of that! No more ridiculous papers, no more 2 hour tests, or 4 hour study sessions! I…get…to..SLEEP! But no matter how excited I am about less work, I will still miss this life more.
But, despite the constant weight of the end of the school year, even though summer is here, MNU isn’t going anywhere! The home of the Pioneers will be right here where we left it. So I’m gonna keep my head up, keep my hopes high, and await the storm (by storm I mean summer :P)!! So get ready MNU! Cause I’m not done with you just yet! I still have 3 more years of this place; 3 more years of memories, 3 more years of people, and 3 more years of experiences; 3 more years of studying and 3 more years homework for hours on end :(; 3 more years of the college life and 3 more years sleepless nights. I still have 3 more years of living life as a Pioneer!
3 more years!!
So here we are, saying goodbye to freshman year! And hello to the rest of our lives!
This is the time when we all get summer fever. The last couple of days have been beautiful and some classes have even been outside! Our profs are the best!
A couple days ago some of my friends and I had a fish fry! The guys had gone fishing over the weekend so we all gathered in the back parking lot of Uphaus (an upperclassmen guys dorm) and had such a great time eating fish and fried potatoes and special recipe french fries. It definitely made us all crave summer that much more!
Next week is gonna be the last time that I get to share my life with all of you! I can’t believe everything I have gotten to do and experience over the past school year. One more week until I’m officially a junior in college. Such a crazy feeling.
I know that I should be reading and doing homework and writing and filling my brain with knowledge…BUT…I am so ready for summer and procrastination is sometimes just necessary! Now with that said – check out this video I found while not studying!
HEY GUYS! So, it’s official, my freshman year is almost over. There are only two weeks of school left! Two weeks?? Where did the time go? Where in the world have I been?? It feels like just yesterday I was going through NSO (New Student Orientation) Week. And now I’m coming up on my lest week of school. It’s crazy how fast time flies.
We were talking about this the other day in class (how time has gone by so quickly). There was a group discussion about our experiences in our past and it was almost completely focused on this school year and how fast it has gone. We talked about how each of us has learned a lot in these past few months, how we’ve grown a lot, how we have met a lot of new people, and so on and so forth. The most interesting stories to me were the ones that were about the ridiculous things that happened in Campus Center, or the one time during an intramural game when someone got hit in the face with a ball, or just times when we were just together and having fellowship. There were stories about character building, insane amounts of homework, or even times that were “alter” moments (which were very influential and I am very glad we had these too), but the stories I related to most were the relational ones. I feel like we all felt this way. We related easier to each other when we talked about relating (ironic huh?). It made me think “Man…I’m really gonna miss these people.” I’ve made so many new friends and had so many new encounters. Some times it was hard, but this year taught me a lot about how important it is for us to be together. I would not have been able to do it had I not connected withe people the way I have here at MNU.
A few weeks ago I blogged about MNU Secret Admirers. This is a perfect example of how we long to connect to other people, even if it is in secret :P. MNU has been awesome to me, and listening to these other people’s stories really helped me think back on everything I’ve experienced. This year has been really important to me, whether it’s what I learned in class, friendships I’ve gained, or just things I’ve done. Now that I look back, I can see how thankful I really am for coming to a Christian school like MNU, and if I had the chance to go somewhere else I would still pick MNU. This has become a second home to me, I will miss it terribly, and I know any of you incoming Freshman who will be here will feel the same way!
24 is the name of a tv show about fighting terrorism.
there are 24 hours in a day.
24 oceans in a Switchfoot song.
24 eggs in a 2-dozen egg carton.
24 bottles of water in a flat.
24 engaged couples at MNU.
that’s like. 48 people. and don’t get me started on that number, but let’s just mention that it is only 2 from 50. which is half of 100.
So for those of you who are happily engaged, congrats!
and for those of you hanging out on team single for life, there’s still time in the semester!
In fact, some friends of mine in the latter category decided, heck, why should we miss out on the engagement fun?!
So, ladies and gents of MNU Blogs, may I present to you couples number 25, 26, and 27!
This is fiance number 1: Andy Blum. Andy and I were first official in campus center filming a vlog for this very media platform. Spotted twice in 2 days in campus center during the off-hours and then the next night at a basketball game together, talks of visiting the gazebo became real during the president’s gala. Andy has been in love with Allegra for YEARS and couldn’t wait to pop the question, which is why he was the first to propose.
Fiance number 2: Jarret Garber. Jarret and I were first seen in campus center sharing a meal (with other friends: a courtship of sorts.) He would then conveniently sit next to me in campus center during meal times and you could say it was love with each bite. Nicknames he calls me include: wifey, sweet cheeks, honey boo-boo, and hot broccoli (you would understand if you saw his diet.)
Fiance #3: Ethan Hargrave. Ethan transferred to MNU last semester and plays baseball. Ethan decided moments before he proposed that he couldn’t live without me. The proposal could not have been better: a sunny senior day at Dixon Stadium in front of the masses with a hotdog foil ring. I made him the happiest man in the world (or at least 1/3) by saying YES!
True love is hard to come by. Also there are about 50 people on facebook who congratulated me that didn’t catch I got engaged 3 times in one week. Things may be a little weird when it comes time to plan weddings, but the good news is my wedding board on pinterest will not have been used in vain.
Stay tuned for more engagements in the last 2 weeks of school!
So I was in class the other day, taking notes on my laptop, and this girl in front of me starts discretely chuckling to herself. At first I ignored her, and continued listening to the EVER SO EXCITING lecture that was being presented by the very entertaining professor in the font of the class :|. The only problem was that she continually kept giggling, and showing her computer to the girls sitting beside her, who then in turn began giggling themselves.
Now I’m not gonna lie, I was struggling to stay awake. This was definitely one of the most…unadventurous classes I have had in my very minimal college experience. So in my fatigued state I gave in to my curiosity and wanted to see what was so funny. So I slowly leaned forward to look at this girls computer to see what was so funny, trying not to be noticed so I didn’t look like a total creeper.
NOW I KNOW I shouldn’t have been nosey! And I know I should’ve just continued to do my notes! But I didn’t…so oh well boo hoo :P.
ANYWAY! So i’m looking at here computer right? And what do I see?? Facebook… At first I was like “DUUUMMBB!” because I thought they were probably laughing at stupid posts or little memes. But then I looked again and realized it wasn’t just any Facebook page. Oh no! It was about MNU! And not only was it about MNU, but it was a confessional! After a second of snooping, I could see that this page was a place for MNU students to anonymously confess their feelings for one another! This really really off set me at first. I was like “WHAT THE HECK??” So I quickly opened up Facebook on my laptop and navigated to the page MNU Secret Admirers. At first I was kind of turned off to the idea. I thought it was a ridiculous idea and that it could open up a window to some bullying/pranking. But once I began to read it, I found that it seemed that MOST of these confessions were pretty sincere. It turns out that college students can be somewhat mature :P! Of course there are some fake ones, and some joke posts, but these are pretty easy to weed out from the authentic confessions. I spent the rest of class reading this page (which was a bad idea! Never browse the internet during class!), and actually found it to be pretty amusing.
It doesn’t say who started the page, and the submission process goes through google docs, which is explained on the page itself, and is completely anonymous. Someone had to be pretty creative to think something like this up, and has to be pretty committed to keep up with managing the page. To me, its a place where people can say the things they can’t get the guts to say to the people that they feel need to hear it.
So if you don’t go to MNU quite yet then this is a little peak to what’s on the minds and hearts of some of your soon-to-be fellow Pioneers. So just go see whats up, read some posts, and learn some things about some people without actually knowing who they are…yet.
And if you DO go to MNU, then check it out, post the things you wish you could say to the people you wish could hear it, or just read what’s going on with some people. And WHO KNOWS, you might read one about yourself!
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So the end of the year is coming quickly! And thinking back, I can see that there is a lot I could say about what has happened to me this year. There’s been some hard times and some good times. There’s been ups and there’s been downs. College has been an awesome experience, and I have learned so much about myself. For example, I have learned that I am not very good at managing my time where there is enough space for homework :\. I usually just plan right over homework time. I also learned that I am very good a taking tests and writing papers last minute :P. I once had a 5-6 page paper due on a Friday at noon, and I did it Friday at 9 and got a 95%! (I do not recommend doing this because not always does it end up very well, I recommend managing your time more wisely than that). I also learned that I am not very good at managing my sleep schedule. A good friend of mine always says the acronym O.L.U.E. (Out Late Up Early) because that’s what happens here. Your up until 2 or 3 in the morning, and you have class at 8! (yeah I don’t know why I do this but I do, and every morning I regret it).
Overall I am not very good at managing my time, and I have really been getting better at this. Learning my weaknesses and strengths has been a huge part of my college experience here at MNU. I’m bad at planning and good at winging it! Now those may work well together but that is definitely not the way to deal with things. It almost always leads to being stressed out..no scratch that, it DOES always lead to being stressed out. And gosh does that suck :(. College is stressful enough as it is. A sense of responsibility really kicks in, and sometimes that responsibility doesn’t sit well in our stomachs
Responsibility…the word that brings more stress on college students than anything else. College students are asked to be responsible to make it to class, to get homework done on time, to take care of themselves, and in some cases, I am an example, we have to pay for college are own. Sounds fun huh? You guys and gals who are just getting ready to go to college are really looking forward to that aren’t you? WOOOOO for getting all of your assets in order and getting the job done! And speaking of getting the job done, some of us have to get jobs to support ourselves too. So not only do we have to get homework done, but we also have to maintain a steady source of income.
I got a job because I am responsible for paying for college myself. That let to another stressful decision I had to make: staying in Olathe over summer instead of going back home to Nebraska so I can make enough money to save up for school. That really kinda sucks…a lot. I will miss my family a lot, specifically my little sisters. But it’s worth it. If I want to go to this school, pursue God’s call to ministry, and really fulfill what I know I NEED to do, then sometimes the tough decisions need to be made. And I am willing to do that. Yes I love my family, and yes I will miss them, but they’re not going anywhere. Just because I’m not with them doesn’t mean they are out of my life.
So if there’s ANOTHER thing I’ve learned this year, it would be that life has it’s pros and cons, and sometimes the cons can be overwhelming, but if we do what God asks us to then the pros will always be worth the cons. JUST like my “time management” problem. It may suck and take some extra work to plan ahead, but the pros will definitely outweigh the cons. So for you guys coming in to college, whether its here at MNU or somewhere else, just don’t be afraid to make the tough decisions if you know it will be worth it. It may take a little bit of sacrifice, but that’s ok. Christ did say that would happen.
Just another lesson I have learned here at MNU that I decided to share with all of you guys!
HEY GUYS!! It’s MIDTERMS WEEK! Do you know what means? It means that next week is spring break!! And this guy gets to spend his week in Nashville hiking and camping in the woods! The school is taking a bunch of us students down there for the week to have fellowship together and to just have a good time outdoors. BUT I will talk about that more in 2 weeks, after break, when I get back to blogging!
So this week has been INSANELY BUSY! Last semesters Midterms were not this bad. Maybe it’s because I didn’t really have any last semester at all! And this semester I will have had like 4! I’m so stressed out. And on top of that I have a huge English Comp paper due, I had to give a speech this week, I had a New Testament Test that I did not study nearly enough for, and then some. I feel Like I don’t have time to study…
But can I tell you a secret?
Especially to you future Pioneers that will be here next semester.
I do have enough time.
I have plenty of time.
I have plenty of time to do homework and to study that is.. The problem is that I don’t have time for the things I love. I just don’t let myself get overwhelmed so I purposefully take time off of studying and homework to just relax, hang out with my friends, or even just to read something else other than homework. I have noticed that taking one day off out of the week helps tremendously: that’s called the sabbath just so you know. But what also helps is taking mini-sabbaths off in the middle of the day. 20 minutes here, or an hour there to just kick back and forget about the stress helps so much.
If I were to push all the things I love to do off to the side, biking, working out, reading my bible, hanging out with my friends, than I would easily get overwhelmed and do even worse on the assignments and tests I know I should’ve done better on. Just like anything, too much of a good thing is a bad thing. I have noticed that, in weeks like this, over stressing myself does more bad than good. I feel worse, I get upset easily, I’m tired, I lose motivation. It’s just not a good place to be, and I definitely don’t want to be stuck there.
So studying for midterms isn’t just about pushing through the week as hard and fast as you can. I’ve said this before, but college isn’t a sprint, it’s a marathon, and pacing yourself is key. So taking a coffee break, hanging out with friends, going out to eat, or even just relaxing and watching your favorite tv shows are not a problem. I said I’m stressed now, but if work work work was all I did then I would be SWIMMING in stress. I’m happy with where I am at. I am calm, cool, collected, and confident I will do well. So if you are new to this college life, another less I have learned that I would like to share with you guys: Don’t be afraid to stop and just chill. You don’t want to become overheated and break down now do you?
HEY GUYS! I have a thought for the incoming Pioneers, or any other high school senior preparing for college.
I bet you can guess what it’s about!
You guessed it!
It IS about choosing a major!
In coming to school sure you’re overwhelmed with trying to find a way to pay for school, you’re worried about making sure you have everything to bring to school, and you might even be worried about meeting new people. Some of us aren’t as out going is the rest of you and the fear of isolation can get the best of us sometimes. But I think the one thing that is the hardest to deal with above almost all else is choosing a major.
I mean think about it! That can be a tough pill to swallow. You are not only choosing a set of classes to take, but choosing a major is the beginning of how you will choose to spend the rest of your life. This decision doesn’t just affect you in college. It doesn’t even just affect YOU! This decision affects your future spouse, kids, grandkids, and so on and so forth.
Wow…that’s insane to think about. That’s really hard to grasp. The idea that now you are starting to choose how to spend the rest of your life. It almost seems so surreal. We just got out of high school, and all the way up until this moment we experienced something different every year: new class rooms, new classes, new teachers, sometimes new schools, new people, new school supplies, new, new new new NEW NEW!! There’s summer break, winter break, days off, we could call in sick, we had no worries, and now we are about to make a decision that will, hopefully, be constant for years to come. How in the world can we make a decision like that?
So now that we understand how important this decision is, I think there is one more thing we have to understand as equally important, if not more important. That is simply taking your time. Don’t rush to make this decision! I have SO many friend who have NO idea what they want to do for the rest of their lives, and that’s perfectly fine because you have the rest of your lives to make that decision! So don’t hurry, pray about it, and make sure it’s something that makes you happy.
Choosing a major is not simple, so don’t try to shove it in a box. Take your time, enjoy yourself in college, and make memories that you will be happy spending the rest of your life remembering instead of thinking back to that time that you were stressed and unhappy. So make the best of the present, and try not to rush into the future. The future will come soon enough.