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Purpose Found In Faith, Family And Folks

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Carol Best
The Riley family standing between two yellow school busses
Autumn, Sam, Bo and Samuel Riley.

Good and bad things happen in life. Sometimes they arrive together. And sometimes, especially when a heart is finally open, what feels like the worst moment becomes the turning point. Sam Riley’s life is proof that transformation doesn’t always come quietly. Sometimes it comes loud, messy, and unmistakable.

Sam came to MidAmerica Nazarene University from Texas to play football and baseball, not to find faith. He wasn’t a Christ follower, he says plainly. But he was surrounded by coaches and professors who cared deeply about him, not just as an athlete or a student, but as a person. That mattered more than he realized at the time.

His freshman year was marked by deep loss. When Sam’s dad passed away, grief unraveled his academic life. “My grades were terrible,” he recalls. “I had a .9 GPA. Like, not a 1.9 GPA. It was terrible.” He left MNU for a semester, returned unsure of his future, but ultimately graduated with a history degree rather than the education degree he had sought since seventh grade. He thought his dream of teaching was over.

But even when Sam felt lost, MNU didn’t let go of him. Coaches called to check in. Professors showed up in quiet, persistent ways. His English professor had the other students write Sam letters of encouragement after his father died. History professor Frank Johnson helped him stay on course academically. “MidAmerica was never just about the content,” Sam says. “They cared about me as a person.”

After graduating in 2000, with no direction, Sam’s life hit bottom. One night, after closing down a bar, he walked into College Church (adjacent to campus) at 3 a.m. and decided it was time to confront God. “I told God, ‘I’m not smart enough to see signs. I need a big billboard,’” Sam says. Exhausted and angry, he passed out in a pew.

When he woke up, left the church, and started his truck, a Pat Green song came on the radio: Southbound 35. The artist asks himself what he is doing in Kansas City in the first line, and it hit Sam square in the chest. He had just asked God for a billboard. “I didn’t think it was a coincidence,” he says.

That morning, Sam packed his truck and drove south on I-35 to Texas with no job and no plan, just obedience to what seemed like a clear message. Miraculously, within a week, his former high school coach helped him get hired via an emergency certification to teach junior high and coach football. “For the first time in my life, I actually followed faithfully,” he says.

Today, Sam has spent more than twenty-five years in the classroom teaching subjects across the social studies spectrum and now focuses on AP Psychology and AP Government. Teaching students every day is where his purpose comes alive, though he holds a Master of Education from Lamar University with a principal certification. “They’ve never been able to pry me out of a classroom,” he says of the idea of administration. Teaching psychology allows him to give students practical tools for understanding themselves and the world around them. Tools he wishes he had learned at their age.

Just as importantly, Sam teaches the way he was taught, with care and encouragement. He checks in when students are absent, not to scold, but to ask, “Are you okay?” He creates a classroom where students know they are seen and valued. “It shaped how I teach,” he says of his MNU experience. “They cared about me as a person, and that’s what I do here in my classroom.”

Today, Sam lives by three guiding words: faith, family, and folks. “That is who I am,” he says. “I make every decision in my life based on faith, family, and folks, in that order.”

His purpose was forged through loss, anger, and uncertainty but refined through love, mentorship, and a faith first modeled at MidAmerica Nazarene University. Sam’s life is a reminder that even when the road feels broken, life can change—sometimes just one billboard at a time.

Sam Riley is married to Autumn. They have two sons, Samuel and Bo. You can hear more from Sam on the Empowered Life Podcast, Episode 7. Learn more about finding purpose as an educator at mnu.edu.

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